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Opinion of others - does it really matter?

21 August 2022

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The thing we fear the most - what would others say about me?

We are programmed to give a lot of attention to what others think about us, than what we say about ourselves. In fact, we rarely dare to have an opinion about ourselves. We think in the terms of how others look at us. We believe we are smart if someone says we are smart and believe we aren't if someone says so.

Let us go back to our story. What would have all the other animals said about the tortoise?

Some must have called him a fool.

Some would have told him about the impossibility of the whole thing.

Others would have advised him to give it a good thought.

Lot of noise, all telling him not to run the race. There was no chance of him winning, anyway. 

The tortoise was wise. Or a fool. Depends on the perspective we hold. 

He did not heed the surrounding noises. 

He quieted not only the noise of the fear and doubt within but also the noise outside. 

Only when we reach this calm state, can we truly become conquerors. 

What are the various noises around you telling today?

Do you heed them or choose to ignore them?

Now what if there was another animal who had actually run against the hare and had a word of advice?

Based on his own experience? That would be a word worth listening to. Because it was based on experience. 

A person who had undertaken the journey you are about to take, will have something worth sharing. 

No one who has actually achieved something has done so by listening to other people's opinions. 



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Dare to be a tortoise - overcome procrastination and overthinking to become a super achiever.

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All of us have heard this wonderful sweet story of the Hare and the Tortoise.  Let me retell it again in short.  In a jungle, there lived a hare and a tortoise.  The hare was proud of its ability t

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No Excuse is good enough

21 August 2022
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The D- day of the race. Both the hare and the tortoise were ready at the start line. What was the tortoise thinking about at that time? Was it possible to back off? What was the use, anyway? He wou

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Action taking makes you a winner - stop overthinking

21 August 2022
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There was so much that the tortoise could have thought about. He could have spent the whole day sitting and thinking.  Did he make a right decision? What were the chances he could win? How much was

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Say later to saying 'later' - overcome procrastination

21 August 2022
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This is nice, but I don't have time now. Maybe later. I am not ready now. Maybe later. This is not the right time. I have so many responsibilities now. I will, once I have fulfilled them. So later. 

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Opinion of others - does it really matter?

21 August 2022
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The thing we fear the most - what would others say about me? We are programmed to give a lot of attention to what others think about us, than what we say about ourselves. In fact, we rarely dare to h

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Detachment from results

22 August 2022
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Our dear little tortoise wasn't bothered about his win. He probably knew he had a very less or negligible chance of winning. But that did not stop him from trying. Giving his best mattered. So often

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