My observation says there is no such thing as WRONG or RIGHT. It is just a matter of one's PERSPECTIVE.
In many cases, it is seen that the thing favorable to one person is unfavorable to another. Recently, I've witnessed such a thing. Two of my acquaintances tried to set an example for their disciples so they did something commendable but that turned sore to others. so it's natural.
-सांझ शैलेश