What is being lost means?
Don't worry I am not gonna talk negatively.
No seriously have you ever thought what does this phrase means?
Although we don't know it's meaning, each one of us get lost at some point of time.
And in my experience many of us has enjoyed the journey of being lost.
I wonder ,Is it about not finding ourselves or refusing to recognize our own personality?
Why we sometimes find ourselves so vulnerable?
Why we start seeing nothing but negatives in our life?
You know what soul means? Right?
Aaahhh... Welll you don't..... Because if u do u would have answered me correctly.
Being lost means not able to connect to our basic soul. The soul which is responsible for our physical being and all the personality.
Being lost starts when we are in dilemma.
Dilemma of refusing to see ourselves honestly.
We reject the person who we actually are and start putting ourselves into someone else's shoes every time.
This leads to comparison and many traumas even if they are non existent..
Inferior complex is a very common term these days. And patients of this diseases are almost every where.
Even I don't know if this is self curable or not.
But as with all disease if immunity is strong it can be fought else we get into the jail of dark ideas for ourselves.
These dark ideas creats distance between our mind and heart. We start finding ourselves detached and loose.
What we call weak moments.... Very common term these days again.
Again the dilemma happens.
Dilemma of not finding ways to our real journey.
We ignore to be recognized and love singing the rythm of being hidden.....
Being hidden from world?? No no... Being hidden from only ourselves.
Everybody else is watching us... Commenting and judging us... But we don't care as we are lost. In this way being lost is healthy. Because our mind is free of thoughts and heart is empty. Resting process starts and we love the process.
We are hidden from the normal daily eyes ... Eyes of expectations and judgements.
Hence we like to be lost..
But if it for too long.... This is named as depression... Again very very common term these days.
Initially we love the idea of our soul searching but later on it becomes a habit... A dangerous habit.
Leading our soul to disconnect from each and everything... Even with the idea of life.
And that what I call excess of every thing is bad.
Too much isolation detached our souls...
Emotions starts melting and at last evaporates...
Either insensitivity or hypersensitivity starts taking place.
It is a silent killer.. Kills you and will not make any noise.
Now let's talk about why this happens.... How this happens and when it happens....
You must have heard of the term lone wolf..
Person who love to be alone all the time. Who thinks they are self sufficient and can accompany themselves throughout the life.
Technically it is true... All they need is money.
Money to outsource every daulily service and be in never resting phase
But have you ever thought can we live our life alone fundamentally.
Noooo... It's a big ni from my side.
Not because we are dependent or incapable but we are not designed to end up like this.
Not importantly blood relations oy but also any other attachments like connecting to orphans connecting to old aged groups etc.... We need to have emotions we need to have company.and this I call a healthy company. Healthy company means a balanced comapany. Where we are enjoying others and having some personal space and time off for ourselves...
Self talk is also very important. You know the whole world relies on one theory....
Theory of being balanced...
The problem starts when we categorise things as right or wrong...
But we don't know that the reality is way to far from these foolish categorization. . It is always about turth and lie....
When something has happend by any means it is the truth...else its a lie.
All I want to tell that we must find the truth.
Truth of happening.. Truth of souls.... Truth of our purpose. When we do it we can never hide ourselves as u must have heard that turth can never be hidden.
Being lost is real and healthy also... But only of it is taken as a break. If this break is too long it creats a gap... The gap which can never be fulfiled...
Having this idea shows that the person is alive...
This anxiety of do's and don'ts makes us keep going on track of life..
When start finding answers to our anxiety we start
Finding our purpose of life.
When we find our purpose of life we create a goal.. When we create a goal we aim it and start walking towards it... Making our minds aways from all the distractions .... Focusing and concentrating at our finishing line.
Sometimes obviously we will fall. Again trying the new way out... Meeting different person with different idea of the the same goal as ours.
Empowering ourself in completely different way.
All of the above lines seems easy to do but it is a harsh reality that very few us can do it.. Finding real purpose of life and then Aligning our mind and heart with it is the most difficult task I have known.
This self talk and non distract ing journey starts not only from childhood but at any age...
At last I would like to say that never loose hope.
Because a small ray of hope can enlighten us in every possible way.
Whenever you see anyone complain ing about lifeask them one thing... What is their purpose of life? It will make them curious about themselves and hence for the life... Distracting them from all the complains and then the new journey begins from within.
Journey of life and journey of love.....
This creats a balance .
Where there is balance there is solution of every problem...
Live life and gather the sustainable experience which we will pass on to next generation.
Thank you.
